* Defaults: replace docker with containerd as our default container_manager
* CI: Use docker for download_localhost test
* Defaults: with container_manager=containerd we need etcd_deployment_type=host
* CI: Run weave jobs with docker
* CI: Vagrant don't download_force_cache
* CI: Fix upgrade tests
* should run compatible with old settings, this means docker
* we need to run with a distro that has at least modern containerd,
this means move from debian9 to debian10 to allow `containerd_version`
to match between 2.17 and master
* rename ansible groups to use _ instead of -
k8s-cluster -> k8s_cluster
k8s-node -> k8s_node
calico-rr -> calico_rr
no-floating -> no_floating
Note: kube-node,k8s-cluster groups in upgrade CI
need clean-up after v2.16 is tagged
* ensure old groups are mapped to the new ones